PART 1
Previously we presented different techniques for control over the sexual energy. Why is this control so important?
The reasons are simple and easy to understand. A man’s strength, his efficiency, his capacity for action, his vital, mental and spiritual resources are in close connection with his potential sexual energy.
Now we will present three efficient Taoist techniques specifically designed for control over the sexual energy.
THE THREE-FINGERS METHOD
The three-finger method has its origins in China, and dates back 5,000 years ago. It is a very simple method and anyone can learn it. Basically, it stops the loss of the sperm through pressure applied with the fingers.
HOW TO DO IT:
A few seconds before ejaculation, pull out from your lover’s vagina and press the point between the anus and sexual organ with the three longer fingers of the right hand. Thus, if done correctly, the pressure applied in this area prevents ejaculation and the waste of sexual energy.
First, locate the exact spot: Press the point between the anus and scrotum – a “gate” through which the energy comes in and out of the body.
Second, press with a medium force, feeling the exact pressure to apply: Usually, as the fingertips are quite strong, the pressure should not be very strong in order to stop the fluid.
Next, use all the three fingers: (index, middle finger and ring finger) to stop the fluid. If we use one finger only, the sperm will tend to pass by.
Two fingers will not totally block the channel, therefore use the index and the ring finger to press both sides of the urethra and immobilize it and then the middle finger to press directly on the urethra. Bend the fingers, most of all the middle finger.
WHEN TO DO IT:
Immediately after you feel that ejaculation is imminent, pull out of your lover’s vagina, and apply the pressure to stop the fluid. If you wait too long, the pressure will not be enough to stop the fluid.
This pressure should be applied before, during and after the contractions announcing ejaculation.
Block the “gate” with your fingers until you are absolutely certain that the ejaculation will no longer occur. The result of this blockage is that an important part of the seed will flow back inside the seminal reservoirs it came from.
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