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The difficulty in knowing how to touch the clitoris comes from the contrast between the stimulation of the penis, which usually needs to be strong, ample and done with force as compared to the delicate, modulated touch needed when caressing the clitoris; this kind of touch refers to a sensitivity which is not specific to all men. Another difficulty arises due to the variety of zones that produce pleasure as well as variations of touch and rhythm: there aren't two women who are alike from this point of view.
The sensitivity of the clitoris, the pressure of caressing and the rhythm of touch could be discovered by exploring the clitoris, according to the woman's reactions: breath, sounds, moans, words, moves which show us the intensity of the pleasure she feels or opposite reactions like an absence of sensations or discomfort. If the woman, by means of self-stimulation already knows exactly the points of excitation and the ways of turning them on, she may easily guide the man and show him how to do it. She must not hesitate and may even take the hand of her lover in order to show him the touch and the rhythm she wants.
The point of pleasure may be approached from different angles as every woman has her preference either for the clitoris' glands, or for the terminal part of it, or for the body of the clitoris. The place of this point is very precise, occupying only a few millimeters; outside this tiny epicenter the stimulation does not have the desired effect. It is best for the woman to discover the precise point of pleasure by means of self-stimulation and if she doesn't want to reveal her findings to her lover, he will have to find it by softly and carefully by passing the tip of his finger over the tiny enigmatic surfaces of the clitoris.



HOW TO CARESS THE CLITORIS


USING ONE FINGER
The forefinger: although it is classical, the forefinger is not the best to be used
The middle finger: it is preferred as it allows a better centering of the hand on the vulva's axle, with the palm placed on the mount of Venus. The forefinger and the ring finger could be used to symmetrically caressing the inner side of the major labia.
The thumb: is placed towards the base, at the zone of the clitoris. The other fingers are on the pubis.



[X] USING MORE THAN ONE FINGER
The forefinger and the middle finger: each of them is placed on each outer side of the clitoris
The forefinger, the middle finger and the ring finger: the forefinger and the ring finger are on the outer side of the clitoris and the middle finger is placed on the top of the clitoris' prepuce
The right forefinger and the left forefinger: these two fingers are placed on the outer side of the clitoris in order to rub the prepuce and the clitoris between them as if they rubbed an ear of wheat, but do this delicately
The four fingers: the two central fingers (the middle fingers and the ring finger) rub the prepuce and the clitoris between them, the two side fingers (the index and the little finger) are placed on the minor labia
The middle and the ring finger softly grip the prepuce and the clitoris and caress them.


USING THE HAND
Using the palm: Its sarcous side is passed over the clitoris zone
Using the whole hand: The palm and the fingers' palm side gently touch the clitoris. The optimum pressure depends on the woman, from soft to strong, but it must not be "overpowered". Sometimes the woman herself makes strong moves on it but she does this mostly with the thighs closed together. When her lover stimulates her, he should start with a soft pressure and then gradually increase it. The touch which is most appreciated by woman is a circular touch, the fingers pass around the clitoris forming little circles. It is necessary to lubricate the finger with the woman's sexual fluids or with your saliva in order to perform circular movements without lifting the finger from the point of application.


Here are some other possible ways of touching the clitoris:

• Forward and backward movements on the axle of the vulva
• A soft pressure over the clitoris along the prepuce using the thumb and the forefinger. The fingers will delicately roll the erectile body of the clitoris.

[X] The rhythm of caresses must be regular and continuously maintained in order to better support the excitation that will make the woman reach a climax of pleasure. The accumulation of sexual energy at the clitoris and the growth of the excitation are ensured by constantly maintaining the rhythm in which the clitoris is touched. Any change of pressure, touch, tempo, risks to cause a fall in the level of excitation.
The duration of the clitoris touch is determined by the woman's wishes. The caress shouldn't stop until the woman requires it or until the clitoris orgasm is reached. The lover should not reduce the pressure, so as not to loose the contact with the clitoris or to slow the rhythm. If the caress of the clitoris is accompanied by touches and kisses on other accessible parts of the body, the woman will experience an increased pleasure.


MAKE YOUR WOMAN HAPPY BY CARESSING HER CLITORIS !