PART 1
A woman’s orgasm has been a source of curiosity and controversy for centuries. Its existence has been largely accepted (and medically established) in the last 100 years.
Even now when scientifically acknowledged, a woman’s orgasm is still veiled in ignorance and confusion. The main debate is focused on the difference and relative “maturity” of the clitoris and vaginal orgasms.
It is already well known that some women reach an orgasm much easier when their clitoris is stimulated and others when their vagina is stimulated. The facts are actually quite simple. None is better than the other.
THE CLITORIS AND VAGINAL ORGASMS
A recent theory suggests that there are two different nerves corresponding to the two different orgasms. The pudental nerve is connected, among others, to the clitoris, and the pelvic nerve to the vagina and uterus – the vaginal orgasms sometimes generate uterus contractions.
Compared to the pelvic nerve, the pudental one contains more endings; this is the main reason why women have more clitoris orgasms than vaginal ones.
The two nerves are connected to the backbone, thus, women may have “mixed” orgasms, both at the level of their clitoris and in the depths of the vagina.
There are two aspects that influence woman’s vaginal orgasms: the power of the PC muscle and the sensibility of the G spot and of other inner parts. Women who live both types of orgasms can sometimes notice the difference.
A study on feminine sexuality reached the following synthetic ideas:
1. The clitoris orgasm is defined by a focus of the overwhelming sensations in the clitoris area and a so called feeling of “muscular spasm”.
This type of feminine orgasm is mostly similar to the masculine orgasm as the clitoris is the anatomical correspondent of the penis. Although smaller when compared to the penis, the clitoris has at least the same number of cells and nervous fibers as the penis, they are just “crowded” in a smaller area.
2. The vaginal orgasm is characterized by ample waves of sensations that spread easily in the entire body.
Men’s erotic sensations are strongly focused in the penis area; that is why it is harder for men to learn to circulate their sexual energy in their entire body.
Therefore, sexual continence is a huge challenge for men while for women it is almost an inborn quality.
In a couple that has started to practice Tantric lovemaking with sexual continence, the woman has an initiating role and she should guide the man in learning how to raise his sexual energy along the spine.
According to Tantric and Taoist teachings, there are more types of orgasm, depending on the body area, or better said, on the force center (chakra) where the sexual energy is directed.
In order to remove any prejudice referring to orgasm, you must not forget one single aspect: orgasm simply consists of energetic contractions and expansions, of “pulsations”, and these pulsations can be spread throughout the entire body.
THE TOUCH OF THE CLITORIS DURING INTERCOURSE
A study on feminine sexuality showed that almost 70% of women need to have their clitoris stimulated in order to reach an orgasm. As we have already mentioned, the woman’s clitoris is similar to the penis.
For most men the penis is the most sensitive part of their sexual anatomy – the clitoris is the same for most of the women. To ask a woman to have an orgasm without stimulating her clitoris is similar to asking a man to have an orgasm without stimulating his penis.
It is possible but it takes more time. It is no wonder that many women cannot reach an orgasm in the missionary position as the most sensitive part of their sexual anatomy – the clitoris – is only indirectly stimulated.
Sometimes a man’s pubic bone will rotate on her clitoris or the clitoris hood will be pushed, but, these cannot replace direct stimulation, with the fingers, penis, lips or tongue.