The meeting with a man you definitely like may not simply pass away, regardless of the place of your meeting – a terrace, a party, or even the office.
Which are the chances for this meeting to evolve into a relationship, what type of man should you choose, and which is the best place for the beginning of your romance – find the answers to all these questions here, in this test.
1. One pleasant summer evening…your girl friend invites you to an outdoor party in her yard. What do you wear?
A. I choose something vaporous and low necked.
B. Sport-style, for instance jeans and a t-shirt.
C. Tailor-made costume or a decent dress.
2. On the terrace where you have your juice comes an interesting man who sits at the table next to you, smiles at you, and then starts reading the newspaper.
A. I do not pay attention to him.
B. I try to distract him and make him look up to me.
C. I find a reason to talk to him.
3. Which would be your favourite subject for a conversation with an unknown man?
A. It is indifferent to me, as long as it is funny.
B. I am quite shy, and I rarely talk to strangers.
C. I’d like to approach the subject of love and couple-related issues.
4. How would you define your personality?
A. A calm, wide surface of water.
B. O spring making its way through the rocks.
C. A flame.
5. He has the best chances of seducing you if:
A. He makes erotic innuendoes.
B. He acts as a good friend.
C. He is intelligent with a great sense of humour.
6. Flirting at work:
A. Does not bother me as long as it is just talk.
B. I think it is fun – some erotic tension is ok.
C. This is unacceptable.
7. How would you like your first date to go on?
A. A night at his place, Champaign is a must.
B. Concert, theatre or art gallery exhibition.
C. Walk in the town, or a movie, and dinner at a restaurant.
8. Which of the following animals do you like most?
A. Dear, hedgehog, butterfly.
B. Leopard, falcon, racing-horse.
C. Dog, zebra, dolphin.
9. A man whom you’ve just met asks you to the restaurant. Which is your reaction?
A. I say: ‘my pleasure, and after that?’.
B. If I consider him nice, I accept.
C. I decline, politely.
10. A colleague of yours celebrates his birthday, but the great majority of the guests are men. How do you feel?
A. As usually. It is not something unique for me.
B. Honestly, I am not exactly thrilled by the idea.
C. Great – my choices are multiple…
11. At some friends’ party, a man leans towards you and says: ‘You are incredibly sexy’. What do you answer:
A. Nothing, I turn my back to him.
B. ‘I wouldn’t exactly say you have no taste’.
C. ‘Thank you, but how is your wife?’
12. You try on a dress in a shop. A man waiting for his girlfriend smiles and says you look very pretty. How do you react?
A. I ask: ‘do you mean the colours or the curves of my body?’
B. I pretend I do not hear the remark and get inside the cabin.
C. I smile and thank him for the compliment.
13. You find yourself in the position of having to entertain an unknown man. How do you act?
A. Normally. I am detached and indifferent.
B. I try to make him like me.
C. I rather keep quiet and let him talk.
14. Do you think that a grown up woman should sometimes play practical jokes or pranks?
A. Why not, this will only make her more attractive.
B. Absolutely – this is the only way to keep my humour and creativity alive.
C. No, it would be a proof of immaturity.
15. Your new boyfriend asks you out to the movies. Which is your choice?
A. A good, romantic movie, with great casting.
B. Adventures, action, or comedy – the important thing is to be funny and not boring.
C. An erotic movie, of course.
Each of your answers finds an equivalent in a square of a distinct colour. In the following table, mark the 15 squares corresponding to the letters you chose to each question. Each colour refers to a certain psychological type. The more squares of the same colour you have, the more you are defined by the characteristics of that particular type.
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THE RESULT OF THE TEST
MORE COURAGE! SPONTANEITY ATTRACTS THE ROMANTIC MEN!
You do not like adventures, nor do you seek intense sensations. Therefore, when you first meet a man you are merely reserved and avoid carefully any erotic innuendo.
Even if you meet Prince Charming himself, you do not show you are impressed. For some men, your attitude may represent a challenge, but for most men, you coldness will not make them interested. Unless you change your attitude, you have little chances of meeting your man this fall. Is this what you want?
Our advice: Flirting does not necessarily mean you are ‘easy’, and remember that not any man is Casanova. Try to have some more courage! A more open and more spontaneous attitude will make you more popular.
The right man for you: Any man who approaches you directly has no chance of reaching to your heart. Mr. Right for you has to be reserved, intuitive and honest. The key for you to have a successful relationship is affective compatibility and common interests. Ideal: a romantic man, or someone who values friendship to its most.
Suitable places: You need a familiar environment so that you are at ease, without inhibitions: a friend’s place, your office, or the gym.
YOUR HALF HAS TO HAVE A GREAT SENSE OF HUMOUR
If you like a man, you do not try to hide it. A look, an encouraging smile, or a well-chosen joke are the means you recourse to determine him to make the first move. However, those who try to get your attention with rude remarks, or self-praise do not stand a chance with you. They will get ice-cold silence or a sharp, biting answer.
Our advice: Try to be a little more tolerant when a man proves a little clumsy with words. If you explain him the limits he has to confine his actions to, then you will be able to get what you want without ruining your mood.
The right man for you: Your conversation partner has to be open, confident, witty, and with a great sense of humour; the type who knows to play with the fire without hurting your feelings. Ideal: a man who believes in himself.
The right place for you: You do not need a special place in order to find your match. The daily life permanently offers you a suitable setting for flirting: the bus station, the superstore, the pool, the fast food, or a terrace.
DO NOT MAKE ANY PROMISES! LIVE THE MOMENT!
You are sociable, outgoing, and effervescent. You feel good when you are in the middle of things, and eroticism plays an important part in your life. It is no surprise that flirting is one of your daily pleasures.
Your purpose is not wining the love of a man, nor tricking someone into marrying you. You really enjoy experiencing each moment as it comes, feel the tension created between you and him and get the confirmation of your own power of seduction.
The fact that sometimes your partner is involved too deeply in this game of yours, is not your fault, and it does not bother you too much.
Our advice: caution!!! Your provocative and nonconformist behaviour may make you appear as insistent and superficial. Do not make promises you cannot or will not keep. Or else, you run the risk of upsetting all men you are dealing with.
The right man for you: ‘mummy’s boy’ and the romantics have no business around you. The ‘friend’-type bores you as well. You are nonetheless attracted to men showing freely that they have qualities as lovers. So, the right man for you is Macho or Casanova type.
The right place: You need a special environment, which favours you: discos, events, literary circles, varnishing, openings, or concerts.