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"Only the Anal Penetration Excites Me"
"I am a faithful reader of your magazine and I always read it with great interest. I decided to write to you in order to confess about a problem, which I have been confronted with for some years and which affects seriously my sexual life.

Seven years have already passed since I am no longer a virgin. At the moment, I have a stable relationship with a man, with whom I've been living for more than two years.

My problem is that I don't feel anything when my lover penetrates me in the vagina, but only when he penetrates my anus. Actually, only this excites me. Please, tell me what to do in order to experience the orgasm also when my vagina is penetrated.

I must state that my lover is very gifted sexually and he really knows how to make love. But, in spite of the fact that he is very attractive, especially from the erotic point of view, I cannot reach the vaginal orgasm. Please tell me if there is a proper remedy to this or give me some solutions for me to improve my sexual life."

Miss Trick's Answer:
There are two solutions for re-erotising your vagina. One of them refers to training the vaginal muscles. In the articles of our magazine, we have presented the PC muscle exercises, known as Kegel exercises.
See our articles:

• Do you want to be a special woman? Train your vagina muscles!
  
• Strengthen your sexual muscles!
  

You have to contract rhythmically the pubococcigean muscle (approximately one contraction per second), as if you wanted to stop urinating. Start with a series of ten contractions, and then increase their number to twenty, thirty etc. You have to do at least ten series per day, each set having thirty contractions. Within a few weeks, you will notice a great change.

The second solution is to localize and to excite the G-spot (it is situated on the front side of the vagina).
See our article: Finding the G-spot

When we press this spot strongly enough, a very intense excitation appears. The G-spot has to be stimulated using the middle finger, and, with a little bit of consistence, you can reach the state of orgasm.

Once you are capable to reach the orgasm this way, you will be able to experience it with your lover, too. Good luck!

Another important method for improving the sexual life of a woman is that of increasing her bodily vitality.

See our article: Extra-weight and harmonious body fulfilment make your sexual life better



"I like women who depilate their sex"
"I am a 36 year old intellectual man and I am married for 15 years. I have had a lot of mistresses all my life and I don't regret anything of what I've lived with them. Almost all of them shared with me their tastes and wishes.

I have always been of opinion that the pubic hair is unseemly and I asked my mistresses to remove it completely. I like women who depilate their sex. Men shave their beard for aesthetic reasons; the same do the women who depilate their legs and armpit.

Then why most women are suspicious when thinking about removing the hair from their sex? Some of them consider that it is unnatural to take care of their pubic region, although this is the main centre of interest of a woman's body. Why not pay the proper attention to it?

This preference for the complete shaving of the sex is not new: the Greeks, who had a real cult about different ways of making love, shaved completely. For this, they used the pumice stone, with which they did circular movements on the skin. It must have been really painful, but their assiduousness is a proof that it is worth. The Arabs, the Hindus and some African peoples are advocates of depilating the sex.

Some women are afraid that their depilated sex will give them a little-girl aspect and that they will not be able to excite men like before, but most men compare this mouth of love to a flower…and I am one of them.

I myself have been shaving my pubic hair for more than ten years and I haven't met a woman to consider that this is unpleasant; on the contrary, most of them were well surprised."

Miss Trick's Answer:
Your opinion is right. If both lovers shave their pubic hair they feel better the contact of their genitals and thus the erotic pleasure is more intense. Moreover, certain Tantric rituals require to the woman to shave completely her pubic hair. This act becomes a magical one and helps the man in worshiping the woman's vulva as a Source of Existence.



Wife or Mistress?
"I'm living a paradox: I have a gorgeous mistress with whom I feel erotic sensations that I cannot experience with my wife, although I love her very much. Does this mean that my wife doesn't awake my erotic desire anymore?"

Miss Trick's answer:
The psychological point of view: You are being confronted with the mother-wife-mistress complex. Usually, for a man, his wife, as the mother of his children, isn't seen as the one who can receive and give an intense erotic pleasure or as the one with whom he can taste those famous forbidden fruits, which are so inciting and attractive.

The mistress represents the unconventional love. She gives herself to her lover, without any restriction, shame or bashfulness. At the same time, the wife's image, the mother of his children, is associated with the image of his own mother during his childhood; this can arouse in his soul feelings of respect and devotion.

Being a "serious" woman, she is hardly imagined by her husband in a less conventional situation. Even if before marriage a woman was extremely sensual, she may often become frigid after it, especially after more births. Consequently, the man starts to look somewhere else for something he cannot find home anymore.

A delicate and sincere dialogue with your wife would make you understand that the erotic pleasure and the couple's happiness are compatible with the role of wife and mother.

The esoteric point of view: It is well known from the tantric point of view that the erotic attraction between a man and a woman decreases in time if the lovers lives together. That is why tantric masters recommend to the lovers to live separately and to make love 2 up 4 times a week. This method prevents sexual boring.

There are several basic methods to keep the sexual attraction alive:
1. Sexual continence (lovemaking without ejaculatory orgasm in men's case and without explosive orgasm in women's case) for both lovers.
See our articles:

• Let's talk about SEXUAL CONTINENCE
• 10 reasons for making love with sexual continence for hours on end
  
• 12 amazing effects of making love with sexual continence
  
• Lovemaking with sexual continence face to face with usual lovemaking
  
• Squeezing - A secret to avoid ejaculation
  
• Transmutation and sublimation
  
• Sexual energy control techniques for women
  
• Sexual energy control techniques for men

2. Don't sleep in the same bed. You should share the same bed only for lovemaking.

3. Make erotic surprises to your lover such as erotic massage, the stimulation of her G-spot with your fingers, the explorations of her erogenous zones by using hands, lips and tongue (this includes oral sex or cunnilingus which gives much pleasure to the woman).

4. Discover her erotic fantasies and try to fulfil them.