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The boy asked: How would you like to be touched?

The girl answered: I would like you to touch me as if you were to go away tomorrow and you wanted to remember every part of my body, the softness of my skin, all the curves of my body.

I would like you to touch me as if you were blind and you knew you would never see me.
Touch my face, my breasts, my thighs…learn the way I look with your hands.

I would like you to touch me as if your hands were healing hands, emanating love with each caress. I would like you to touch me as if your caresses are your nourishment. Feed with me, and quench your thirst with my love for you.

I would like you to touch me as if your caresses feed me, as if your touch would give me life and happiness.

I would like you to touch me as if your hands are paintbrushes, and as if your caresses color my body with bright, sparkling nuances.

I would like you to touch me as a sculptor who has just finished his work and now he smoothes the surface to make it shine.

I would like you to touch me as if your hands were fire, burning away the impurities and letting shine the pure gold of my soul.

I would like you to touch me as if I was eternally your beloved!

If Tantra is the art of total and aware living, and touch is one fundamental means of communication, we may say that the tantric touch is the touch that comes straight from the heart.

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A touch from the heart has healing powers, and allows a deep communion between the two lovers.
Tantric touch, sweet caress is a way of consciously communicating with one’s lover, with all the heart.

A caress always implies honesty, respect, harmony and love.
It is about communicating what we feel and experimenting with our body.

Although we usually touch with our hands – which is a good thing since approximately one third of the five billions receptors in the skin are located in the palms – we may use other parts of our body to touch our lover.

The caresses have to express your love, because it is the only way to make possible the appearance of extraordinary phenomena, such as awakening of Kundalini , miraculous healing, ecstatic pleasure and happiness.

You heard the term Tantra many times. It is an Eastern art of lovemaking, initiation in secret sexual techniques, all the definitions we found so far refer to the sublime way of making love.

However, Tantra is more than this. It is a science that measures the pulse of life, which adds a spiritual dimension to our daily life.

Tantra is in fact the experience of being permanently aware, awake, and truly alive. It is the earth, the water, the fire, the air, the woman and the man; the light and darkness, all intermingled in a mysterious communion.

Whether we walk in the garden, talk to a friend, meditate, or make love, Tantra means to be fully aware of the present and enjoy each moment to the maximum. By going deeper into the Tantric techniques, we learn how to live and enjoy each moment.

Through the practice of Tantric techniques not only we get to control the energies of our physical body, but also we find the way to live our experiences in our heart.

Basically, this is about loving and being loved. It is about the overwhelming mystery of love. Tantra is about the balance of the opposing energies and about being able of walking the Middle Path.

Tantra is a way of life that is the answer to all those who aspire to ecstasy and spiritual fulfillment. Tantra means transformation and divine recognition.

Sit facing each other, as comfortably as possible. Close your eyes, and visualize two rays of bright light entering your body, one through your head and the other through the soles.

Visualize the way they come together in the area of the heart. Focus your attention in the heart area and imagine that you breathe in through your heart. Do this together.

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Then start caressing each other and perceive the way your hands are charged with energy. Transmit this energy to your lover. Evoke a state of happiness, and imagine that you are in the middle of a wonderful fire.

Notice how the state and the environment you evoked influence your way of caressing. Share your feelings. Play some background music or other relaxing sounds, and use all your senses in order to know each other better, to get close to what you really are.

Notice the differences between the ways you used to be and the way you are now. Through practice, these experiences will deepen, leading you to a better communication within your couple and a greater state of intimacy.