Tantra MagazineBy practicing lovemaking with sexual
continence, within a couple of months lovemaking becomes a blissful and great
experience. It will gradually help the two lovers overcome what may be
considered a vulgar and instinctual biological act. Thus the loving couple will become an ideal, cosmic and divine one. Sensuality, amplified and refined to
the extreme, due to perfect sexual continence, appears in the Indian spiritual
tradition as a simple and natural way of reaching divine ecstasy (Samadhi).

Extremely intense erotic experiences due to sexual continence are enriched with
trans-sensorial values and lead to a progressive state of bliss and autonomy
for both lovers. This kind of erotic act also represents a mysterious way to
knowledge, because perfectly controlled sensual pleasure is an instrument for reaching
ecstatic states which frees the spirit and the mind.

From perfect sexual continence the intense sexual tension is sublimated into
superior forms of energy because it has not been consumed through ejaculation; the
seminal emission is completely stopped during orgasm because of a powerful
process of mental focus that allows full self-control, both of ejaculation
and erotic pleasure. We will comparatively present two ways of lovemaking:
normal, with ejaculation and – the one with sexual continence. Thus you will be
able to see the advantages and disadvantages of both of them.

We know that all those who have had intercourse without sexual continence
convinced themselves about the obvious disadvantages and limitations of it.
Every man who is in love has wished to make love to his lover as much as
possible, even 5 or 6 times a day, and not to feel exhausted in the end.
Instead he wished he felt full of force and happiness. Sexual continence made
successfully gives you the liberty to do WHATEVER YOU WISH TO DO, EVEN IF IT
SOUNDED IMPOSSIBLE BEFORE.

Now, lets see the comparative analysis of the two types of orgasm: average
orgasm and total successive orgasm without ejaculation.

AVERAGE ORGASM

TOTAL SUCCESSIVE
ORGASM (without ejaculation)

Explosion. The
erotic energy is inevitably wasted in a short time. The intensity of the
feeling diminishes in comparison with the one felt at the beginning of  sexual intercourse

Implosion. The
erotic potential is transmuted and the resulted erotic energy sublimated into
more elevated energies which accumulate into profound levels
of your being. They induce unique pleasure states and also extraordinary, rich
and refined phenomena. The feeling of intensity gets bigger constantly and does
not diminish at the end of the experience

It happens in such a
short time that you feel nostalgia about it burning out so quickly

It happens out of ordinary
time (indefinite as duration) because of the endless sensation of bliss that
is being induced through the entire being of both lovers, giving them
happiness and joy

It’s only about the body
and not much else

It happens out of
your physical body, in your subtle bodies (astral body, mental body,
causal body)

It’s a game that you
play with your partner

It is a game played
with (within) yourself while feeling the other emphatically as yourself

The idea “I
depend on him/her” is being induced spontaneously

The idea of
“the other” vanishes because of spontaneous transfiguration and
thus you can feel a gigantic dilatation of your consciousness, connected with
the one of the other, endlessly

The man is the one
that takes action while the woman is passive

The two lovers
change the roles, being active and passive alternatively

Breathing is
accelerated and even chaotic

Breathing is
gentle, calm and rhythmical

It’s a reflex act
that leads to loosing control (unconscious, animalistic,
impetuous, uncontrolled)

It’s a completely self-controlled act. It leads to an ecstatic state of abandon, an ineffable erotic bliss that, once installed, makes itself heard
deep down to the most intimate parts of your being, even 2-3 days after the
experience

Limited erotic
availability due to the exhaustion caused by loosing energy through semen
ejaculation for men and explosive discharge for women. It leads to weariness,
a sleepy state and even to repulsion

Unlimited erotic
availability that makes an erotic experience that lasts 8-10 hours
in a row (IF BOTH LOVERS CONTROL THEIR SEXUAL ENERGY TOTALLY). Their erotic
vitality, instead of diminishing, amplifies itself and an inner
state of power and complete sexual satisfaction appear

Motion

Moments of
immobility alternating with slow waves to which the other responds tenderly
and openly, in a harmonious atmosphere

Fear, sometimes
unconscious, of unwanted pregnancy. This fear leads to using birth – control
pills that in time cause frustration and hormonal disturbances

Complete freedom of
any restrictions or awkward tensions, making a healthy and
exuberant erotic manifestation possible

Attachment for the
other, selfish desire

Detachment, desire
turned into non – desire. They lead to a feeling of reconciliation with
yourself and also to a state of happiness that you feel and give to the other
through your gentleness and gratitude

The descent of
consciousness at the instinctual level of the human being during orgasm

The awaking of your
hidden mental potential, the sharpening of your lucidity, the amplifying of
your concentration and the intuition of your spirit

Unexpected
loss of great quantities of sexual energy leads to a diminished
mental and psychic potential and thus the affective feeling is
blurred and its intensity is diminished; plus you feel that it becomes somehow
harder to think

Because of the
transmutation and total sublimation of the sexual force into other forms of
energy the psychic – mental power is amplified a lot, during sexual
intercourse and a long time after it (2 – 3 days in a row). It determines the
awakening of your latent paranormal
capacities (telepathy, premonition, clear-sightedness etc.); an overwhelming
state of euphoria appears; your vitality greatly increases and your need for
sleep diminishes; your intellectual power becomes bigger than normal; your
thoughts are full of a creative and extremely lucid fantasy; a
special erotic availability is maintained without the smallest sign of exhaustion. After 8
– 10 hours of erotic experiences your strength is even more intense than it
was at the beginning and your sexual appetite is unlimited and undiminished.
The man’s virility and the woman’s femininity are amplified.

Of course, you may say: “OK. I understood the difference between
the usual orgasm and total successive orgasm without ejaculation but how can I learn
to practice sexual continence?” Our answer is: “You will learn to
practice sexual continence step by step through our site. We will give you all
the information necessary to practice sexual continence. All that you
have to do is to apply the techniques and to be patient in order to reap their
fruits”