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PART 3
Women have the facility to direct the energy along the spine and to expand their orgasms in their entire body more easily than men. Generally, women are less genitally focused than men and consequently, it is easier for them to experience and expand their orgasms in their body.

At the same time this diffusion of erotic sensations in women’s case has a disadvantage: many women are genitally “pre-orgasmic” (that means they have never had a genital orgasm).

Such women who have never lived a genital orgasm should first focus their energy on the genital area. Thus, they will become “orgasmic” and from this stage they can pass to the “multi-orgasmic” stage.

It is easier to become a man with multiple orgasms if your lover prefers to make love for longer periods of time. Many couples suffer because a man cannot make love for a sufficient length of time.

Anyhow, if you become multi-orgasmic and she doesn’t, the last situation becomes a characteristic of your couple. Although it is important not to constrain her and to accept her wish of more or less pleasure, you will have to encourage her yo explore her sexual potential.

Even though women would like to help their lovers become multi-orgasmic, the most important thing they can do to help you is to explore their own pleasure and to cultivate their own sexual satisfaction.

HER AROUSAL
Most women need more time than men to become sexually aroused, but, once they are aroused, their desire lasts longer than a man’s. As a sexual continence practitioner you will be an exception from the last part of the rule.

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According to Taoism, men are like fire and women are like water. In order to satisfy your lover you need to bring her to the “boiling point”, which means that you need to keep your fire burning long enough for this.

The secret for satisfying your lover is to comprehend the stages of her arousal and to learn to synchronize your own arousal with hers.

HOW DO I KNOW WHEN A WOMAN’S DESIRE HAS REACHED THE “BOILING POINT”?
We will now mention the stages of arousal so that women will become more aware of themselves and men can understand how to better satisfy their lover’s wishes.

THE SIGNS OF DESIRE
The control over ejaculation begins with the breath and so does the passion. The first sign that you have about your beloved’s desire is the change in breathing, it becomes faster and superficial.

According to Taoist teachings, if her nostrils vibrate, her mouth opens and she hugs you, it means that she wants her genitals to be touched. When her body shakes, she wants you to slowly caress her genitals.

If her face blushes it means that she wants you to play with the head of your penis on her Venus mountain area; when she opens her legs, she wants you to rotate the head of your penis on her clitoris and towards the opening of the vagina.

If her nipples harden and she pushes her abdomen forward, penetrate her slowly and superficially. If her throat dries and she swallows her saliva, start to move easily inside her.

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If she starts to move her pelvis it means that her desire is strong. If her vagina is well lubricated and if she raises her legs to surround you, go deeper. If she presses her thighs, her pleasure is overwhelming.

If she moves from one side to the other, it means that she wants you to penetrate her deeply, from one side to the other. If she sweats enough to moisten the sheets or if she straightens her body and closes her eyes, she wants to reach an orgasm.

If she bends her body towards the man, her desire is at maximum. If she stretches and relaxes, the desire has filled the entire body. If the vaginal secretions spread on her thighs, it means she is deeply satisfied and you must slowly withdraw.


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