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Bondage is the art of gently tying up your lover, with his or her acceptance, in order to boost erotic sensation and orgasm . The French term for it is ligottage.

This spontaneous erotic technique is a harmless-expression of sexual aggression on one side, and on the other it is an extraordinary experience when having a slow, sweet orgasm while being unable to move.

Bondage is not about domination; instead it acts as a powerful erotic bomb, on all kinds of people, both men and women, even on the most daring and forthcoming of men and on a great proportion of women, once they get the idea, both on the giving and receiving end.

Nonetheless, this little “trick” requires a lot of gentle preparation, a great deal of confidence and trust between the two lovers. The “prisoner” feels and looks sexy.

There are some women who sense the need to be “overpowered” sometimes. Other women prefer to “dominate” from the very beginning.

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The idea of bondage is to tie up your lover’s hands and feet comfortably yet firmly, so that they will not be able to untie, and then slowly bring them to orgasm.

Besides the obvious erotic thrill, this “technique” may prove an effective tool in helping people who can’t reach orgasms because they do not “take the final plunging”.

Nonetheless, you should be careful and empathic to your “prisoner”, as the signs may indicate either discomfort or extreme pleasure.

Therefore, paying close attention to whatever your lover shows is an important aspect of this erotic “technique”. At the first signs of discomfort stop and try to discuss things.

Such erotic games may boost the energy and enthusiasm between two lovers and may add a spicy flavor to their usual, customary “routine”.

The tied “prisoner” may be kissed, masturbated, caressed, or simply teased to orgasm. The active lover has the possibility of pushing the “receiving” one to inexpressible lengths of erotic tension and pleasure.

If the receiver is the woman, she may be “made to explode” with pleasure and the man may be span frantic.

Courageous and open-minded lovers will discover moments in which bondage may be useful. It may all begin as a mattress-fight, in which if she loses, he has the right to tie her up and tease her at his will, but if she fights back with passion, she may earn the right to tie him up and then tease him as she best sees fit.

Of course there are some more peaceful methods of beginning this game, such as tossing a coin, or take forfeits, or draw lots or simply act on the impulse of the moment.

You may even tie your lover while he or she is sleeping, but be careful again to any signs of distress. If your lover usually sleeps heavily, he or she may even wake up at one point and discover unbelievable things…

Another way of beginning this game is to simply ask or simply say: “it is my turn now” and then start “restraining” your lover.


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