Tantra Magazine

The human geography includes a series of pleasure zones unknown to many.
These zones hide treasures of feeling and erotic experience and they can be discovered by touching, kissing, nuzzling, licking and nibbling them.

Most people, both men and women are not aware of the importance of the erogenous zones.

Nonetheless, most of them know only the “basics” in this field: a woman’s lips, breasts, and clitoris, and a man’s lips and penis.

In fact, an experienced and caring lover takes the time to discover and explore the most secret and mysterious pleasure points on his or her lover’s body.

Therefore, it is important that you consider your lover’s body from a holistic point of view. Think of it as a complete organism, with its component parts equally worthy of attention and care.

Sometimes a lover who proves nothing but a good reader of the specialized text-books can be disappointing, while a person that pays close attention to your needs and not to the text-book is more likely to impress you deeper.

Many people, mostly men are not aware of the fact that the tactile sensations felt with the fingertips, or with the skin in certain areas of the body are fundamental elements of an exceptional erotic experience.

However, the knowledge of the erotic map of the body represents only one aspect in understanding and satisfying your lover’s secret desires.

You have to know that regardless of the physical part of your lover’s body that you stimulate you arouse his or her psychic as well.

Each person has an individual erogenous map; consequently, you may discover yours only by kissing, and touching your bodies from head to toe.

Fear not to ask your lover about the favorite spots, and about the most pleasant way of exploring them, so that you know exactly what kind of stimulation triggers the greatest sexual thrill.

You may play touch games and recourse to sensual massage techniques in order to find out the most sensitive areas of your lover’s body, as well as your own.

As we mentioned before, men and women respond differently to erotic stimulation. It is a fact of common knowledge that women need more tenderness and are generally more sensitive to skin sensations than their male lovers.

Some women may reach orgasm simply through the oral or tactile stimulation of their breasts, nipples or mons.

On the other hand, men’s arousal is triggered by visual stimuli and men are less likely to reach orgasm without direct physical penile contact.

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Some of the differences we mentioned are a result of cultural conditioning, when women are encouraged to enjoy their sexuality, while men are taught to focus on the genital area only.

Men who are open enough and willing to experience most often discover a whole new erotic universe when they feel for the first time a softer and more sensual approach to lovemaking.