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PART 3
“LEGITIMATE” LOVEMAKING
Some couples may encounter some problems just before the wedding day. Thus, there are women who stop making love for a few weeks before getting married as they feel they should be “virgins” on the wedding night, even if only for a short time before their wedding.

For other couples, the wedding night marks the beginning of a better and heightening experience. From now on, they can fully enjoy the luxury of having their own place, where maybe they do not have to hide from parents or wait until they fall asleep.

Sometimes the wedding night is not the best night for making love. The exhausting marry day, the traveling, the drink you had may be good reasons to postpone the intercourse until the next day, especially if this is the first time that you make love and you want it to be the best possible.

Even then, it might not be up to your expectations. But, by spending time together and knowing each other you can start to change it for the better.

Today, couples do not wait long until getting physically into a relationship. Still the possibility that they find themselves strangers in their marriage bed exists.

In order to have their marriage work, couples should explore each others’ personalities both in bed and also out of it.

After getting married, they need to start learning how to improve their sexual performances, how to fully please each other, how to use sexuality to improve their happiness, their life together.

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RELAX AND ENJOY
For the well prepared, excited and eager couples, the wedding night can be a night to remember. But if not all things are perfect, be mature enough to understand that this is not the first and the last occasion and it is up to you to improve your intimate life.

KEEP IT SIMPLE
If you are not that experienced, start off gently with one another, learn slowly and rather stick to simple lovemaking positions.

A shy woman will get scared if her husband goes for too much too soon and can be put off sex. The same can happen with men that are not that self-confident regarding his sexuality.

This does not mean that you can not be inventive about the places, the atmosphere and sexual positions you would enjoy making love.

If you mix these moments of pleasure with sightseeing, talking, sharing your feelings, making physical exercises, eating and drinking you will have a profound state of well-being and satisfaction.

There are many couples that overdo everything on their honeymoon and they wonder why it is that their lovemaking suffers.

A wonderful honeymoon should be the basis of your future life together. Even if you have been living together for some time, benefit from this special occasion and make it memorable.


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