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M I S S T R I C K A N S W E R S T O Y O U R A: You have to learn sexual continence in order to prolong the intercourse. The sexual continence means to make love without having ejaculatory orgasm, in other words you don't have to loose your semen. The practise of sexual continence requires special training. We are going to present in our site all the techniques necessary for one to learn sexual continence. For the beginning you should read the articles about sexual continence: First of all it is necessary to understand that the orgasm doesn't mean ejaculation. Even the etymology of the word shows this: the word "orgasm" originates from the Greek word "orgao" that means to be in a transport of delight. So, the orgasm means profound pleasure and it could be experimented on different levels of a human being. For a good understanding read the articles: Tantra yoga and sexology - Part 1 The prolongation of the intercourse is assured by the sublimation of the sexual energy. The practice of sexual continence requires special training in order to be able to sublimate the sexual energy. There are techniques for sublimation and it will be presented in our site. Of course the progression in attaining the sexual continence depends on your effort. But if you practice the sexual continence you become more conscious about sexual energy. Also you will feel more and more refined orgasms. Practical tips for practicing the sexual continence: 1. Practice squeezing: 2. Strengthen your sexual muscles: 3. Relax before lovemaking 4. Slow down the rhythm of your breathing 5. Practice the Taoist method for ejaculation control: 6. Practice fragmented urination: 7. Practice "9 superficial moves and a deep one": 8. Other techniques: 9. Practice Hatha Yoga. See our "Tantric Yoga" section Q: From where can I purchase Ginseng? A: You can always buy almost anything online. Here are some good starting points to find and buy Ginseng: Q: What are the most natural methods for penis enlargement? A: There are several natural techniques for penis enlargement (elongation techniques, toning up techniques, vacuum technique) and we have presented all of them in our site: Also we recommend you to visit the following sites: Q: I have never kissed somebody. I would like to know something about kissing. A: The kissing has to be an expression of love and sexual attraction. You will learn very soon to kiss. The first rule is: Don't be afraid of kissing! The second rule: Relax very well your lips. When you kiss your lips don't have to be contracted, they have to be softly. In this way you will feel very good your lover's lips and you will enjoy playing with them in different ways. You can also dart your tongue in and out her mouth as much as like. Well, good luck! Remember that the kissing is a game of love. So, play this game! Q: I would like to know the adverse effect due to daily masturbating. A: The sexual energy of human being is a limited quantity. Women lose this energy during their life through menstruation and orgasms with the discharging of sexual energy. Men lose the sexual energy through ejaculation. The age when a man finishes this energy depends on how clever he was to conserve his sexual energy. When you finish it you can get it back. That is why Tantric and Taoist masters revealed the power of lovemaking without ejaculatory orgasm for men and without discharging orgasm for women in order to prolong the sexual life and youth and also to bring health and harmony in the body. So, the only way to conserve the sexual energy is sexual continence. See our articles about sexual continence. Practising the sexual continence you can make love hours on end. I recommend only the tantric using of masturbation. Self-pleasuring is used in a tantric manner without losing semen. It is used in order to become more and more conscious about the different degree of pleasure and also for achieving the ecstasy by controlling the sexual energy. Q: I would like to know where I could find the G-spot so I can please my girlfriend better. A: You should read our articles about G-spot: Q: What is the difference between G-spot and clitoris? A: The G-spot is an area inside the vagina located on the front wall of it and the clitoris is a little excrescence situated above the vaginal opening, where the two minor labia join. Q: I would like to try anal sex with my girlfriend. It is painful for her. What I have to know about this type of intercourse? A: First of all you have to ask your lover if she feels attraction to this kind of penetration. If both of you want to try anal intercourse then you have to know some important things: 1. You have to turn on your lover so that her vaginal and anal muscles become very relaxed and dilated. So, you have to try the anal thrusts after you make love normally. 2. Use some soft cream or vegetable oils and gently massage with your fingers (with forefinger and middle finger) the anal opening of your lover. You could even insert your lubricated forefinger into your lover's anus. 3. The rear entry position is very suitable for this type of penetration. 4. After anal intercourse it is not recommended to continue with vaginal thrusts because the colon is full with microorganisms and you could transmit them through your penis into your lover's vagina. This could produce some vaginal problems, such as candida. So, if you want to make love normally after anal thrusts I advice you to wash carefully your penis. 5. Also you have to penetrate your lover very gently so that do not produce her any pain. Stop the penetration when she said it hurts her and start again when she feels it is OK. Q: I like to see women making love. It is very beautiful to see them. Lovemaking between women is better than lovemaking between a woman and a man? A: The harmony of the universe originates from the game between masculine and feminine, yin and yang. The attraction between man and woman represents in fact the primordial attraction between two principles: masculine principle and feminine principle. These principles govern the entire creation. So, it is unsuitable to say that lovemaking between women is better than lovemaking between a man and a woman. But it is well known from ancient times that the lovemaking between women is good for them because it amplifies their feminine energy, so that they become more sensual and feminine. But they did this in order to increase the attraction between them and their men. It is not the same in the case of men's lovemaking. The lovemaking between two men produces serious disorders of their energies. They become effeminate men. From the Tantric point of view the lovemaking between women are very good for increasing their femininity and power of seduction. But it is necessary to make love with men also. Such women become more sensual and feminine. But they did this in order to increase the attraction between them and their men. Q: I would like to give oral sex to my boyfriend, but I don't know how to do it. A: You have to find out what kinds of oral stimulations he likes. Try all kinds of oral stimulations and ask him very sweet during fellatio if he likes them. For example, you could suck his glans and stop gently to ask him: "Do you like it?" "Do you want to raise the pressure?" I can tell you that the men like very much the swallow of the penis and fast movements coming and going. Gently touches mean almost nothing for them. You have to do a strong fellatio. And don't forget to love the penis of your lover. This will help you to enjoy fellatio. If you love a man you should love every part of his body. For more tips read the article www.tantramag.com/woman/art02.html If you feel that you get your lover close to the preorgastic level you should stop in order to avoid his ejaculation. After a few seconds when the intensity of pleasure is diminished you can restart to do fellatio. In this way you will prolong the intercourse. Q: How to arouse a woman fast and easy? A: There are a lot of ways to turn on your lover in order to produce her deep pleasure, such as: 1. The explorations of her erogenous zones by using hands, lips and tongue. This includes oral sex or cunnilingus, which gives much pleasure to a woman. The stimulation of the clitoris with the tongue gives a profound pleasure to a woman. Read our articles What is true about the clitoris? and Cunilingus - The kiss of woman's intimacy. Also the fingering of the clitoris is very arousing for women. Read the article: Learn how to touch the clitoris 2. Erotic massage. Read our articles: 3. The stimulation of the G-spot with your fingers. Read our articles: To turn on a woman depends both on the man and woman. A sensuous woman will be aroused very quickly. Therefore, the women should increase their sensuality in order to feel more pleasure. A good method is to take some herbal aphrodisiacs such as ginseng or yohimbe for increasing the sexual appetite. Q: I have lived together with my girlfriend for 3 years. I love her very much. Our sexual attraction was very strong but now it seems that it diminishes. What can we do to keep the sexual desire alive? A: It is well known from the tantric point of view that the erotic attraction between a man and a woman decreases in time if the couple lives together. That is why tantric masters recommend to the lovers to live separately and to make love 2 up 4 times a week. This method prevents sexual boring between lovers. There are several basic methods to keep the sexual attraction alive: 1. Sexual continence (lovemaking without ejaculatory orgasm) for both lovers. See our articles about sexual continence. 2. Live separately (in different rooms or much better in different houses) and meet for lovemaking 3 up to 5 times per week. 3. Make erotic surprises to your lover. Fulfil her sexual fantasies. Read our articles: 4. Be a new lover at every date. You can do this by giving her pleasure in many ways: by erotic massage, by cunnilingus, by stimulation of the G-spot with your fingers, by explorations of her erogenous zones step by step using hands, lips and tongue etc. She should be a new lover at every date, too. Q: I have some problem with my erection. What should I do to improve my erection? A: I suppose that you are interested about some techniques for strengthening the penis. Here there are some good starting points: 1. Bath your penis alternatively in warm water and in cold water (if you use ice it is much better) as much as possible. Do this exercise daily in the morning at least 6 months. 2. Put a circular elastic at the base of the penis before lovemaking and keep it there during you make love. The squeezing of the elastic will bring the blood in the penis and keep it there. As a consequence the penis will become tougher. This procedure will not produce any harm. 3. Do a strong massage with your hands from the base of the penis to its glans in order to ensure the flow of blood through it. 5. Use "vacuum developer" to insure a good irrigation of the penis with blood. See the article 6.Read the articles Your penis will be ...TOUGHER! and The Anatomy Of The Penis Q: I was just wondering if there is anything in Kama Sutra or Tantra about homosexuality. A: Tantra has nothing in common with homosexuality because it is very well known in oriental tradition (Tao and Tantra) that the homosexuality produces an inversion of the Kundalini, called "reversal Kundalini" which determines in time the degradation of the human being. So, in this case Kundalini doesn't flow along the spine towards the top of the head; it is forced to reverse their ascendant direction and to flow only in the energetic channels from the inferior part of the body. In time homosexuality produces a psychical and spiritual lethargy of the human being. The Tantric philosophy is one of the acceptances but it accepts everything that can be transformed into spiritual energy. There are energies that can't help in spiritual evolution, such demoniac or satanic energy. The acceptance from Tantric philosophy doesn't give "Tantric" license to homosexuality. The harmony in the universe originates from the polar game between feminine and masculine, yin and yang. I remember you that Tantra begins from the wonderful game between Shiva and Shakti. So, try to discover again this harmony. It's for your benefits. Also you have to understand deeply that you reincarnate yourself as a man, so you have to accumulate yang energy for your spiritual evolution. You can't do this with homosexuality because it determines in time an accumulation of yin energies in the men. Q: I can't isolate the PC muscle. When I do this exercise I contract also the anal sphincters. Does this produce any harm? A: Only by perseverant practice you can isolate the PC muscle. You don't have to expect to isolate it for the beginning. And also it is not harmful to strengthen the anal muscles. On the contrary it is for your benefits. The Taoist masters strengthen even these muscles in order to prevent the leakage of the vital energy from the body. After a period of training in strengthening the PC muscle you will become more conscious about your perineum's muscles and you will see that you will be able to isolate the PC muscle. Q: How could I experience the orgasm if I don't ejaculate? A: The orgasm is not the same with ejaculation. The word "orgasm" originates from the Greek word "orgao" that means to be transported into delight. So, the orgasm doesn't mean ejaculation. There are two separated things. It is possible to feel an intense erotic pleasure without ejaculation. If you become more conscious about the preorgastic level you are able to prolong the orgasm, avoiding the ejaculation. For a better understanding read the articles Tantra yoga and sexology - Part 2, Yoga exercises for Tantra training and also those articles about sexual continence. Q: What should I do to convince my girlfriend to give me oral sex? A: There are at least 3 possibilities: 1. One evening you could initiate an erotic game: undress her, lay her on the bed and apply honey, or chocolate cream or maple syrup on her lips, breasts, belly-button, clitoris and vaginal opening. Start to lick very sensually every part of her body covered by the syrup (or honey, or chocolate). When you finish you could say with a playful tone: "Now is your turn. Do you think that you have the courage to do the same? I don't think so". Maybe she will return your favours. This game has to be full of fun, not played in a serious manner. Only in this way it can work. So, I recommend you to initiate this game when both of you are full of joy. 2. Try to convince her that the fellatio is not a disgusting type of lovemaking. It comes from ancient times when the fellatio was considered a form of masculine principle's worship. Give her to read the article about fellatio: 3. One night when you make love with her start to do "69" position. Maybe she will respond to your initiative. Q: From where can I purchase the rings for the penis enlargement device? Doesn't this method diminish the diameter of the penis? A: You have to make your own rings. Read the article: Also I recommend you another good device for penis enlargement based on the same principle. Here it is the address: www.ultimate-penis.com As concerns the second question: The wearing of these rings doesn't diminish the diameter of the penis because when human tissue is exposed to a traction force, it reacts by growing and increasing its sizes (length and diameter) in an effort to relieve the stress placed upon it. Q: Give me some tips for woman's masturbation. A: I recommend only the tantric using of masturbation. Self-pleasuring is used in a tantric manner without losing sexual energy (it means that you shouldn't have explosive orgasm when you masturbate). It is used in order to become more and more conscious about the different degree of pleasure and also for attaining the ecstasy. First, you should try to "awake" your clitoris by sensual touching with your fingers (see the article What is true about the clitoris? and Learn how to touch the clitoris) and then discover the sensitive points of your vagina using your fingers or different objects such as vibrators, bananas. (See the article Finding the G-spot) Q: The oral stimulation of a woman produces any harm? A: If the woman doesn't have any sexual disease not only that the oral stimulation doesn't produce any harm but it is good for the man's health to swallow the woman's sexual fluids. You should read the article: Cunilingus - The kiss of woman's intimacy Q: What is the best position for a woman in order to reach the orgasm? A: There isn't a position that guarantees the reaching of orgasm. You should try many positions in order to choose those, which offer you the maximum pleasure. However, reaching the orgasm implies a lot of things: a harmonious body fulfilment (see the article www.tantramag.com/woman/art16.html ), to be free from sexual inhibitions, to love, to have a good sexual appetite, to make love at least 1- 2 hours continuously (this means that your lover should practice sexual continence). For improving the sexual appetite I suggest you to take aphrodisiacs herbs, such as ginseng ( Raise your virility with GINSENG), sweet basil, peppermint and so on. Q: What exactly is the training for the woman how wants to practice sexual continence? A: The woman has to learn to sublimate the sexual energy because she can lose it by explosive orgasm during lovemaking. The Hatha Yoga helps a lot in getting the control over the sexual energy. So, visit our "Tantric Yoga" section. Also you can find some methods for sexual energy control in the article: Sexual Energy Control Techniques For Women, Do you want to be a special woman ? Train your vagina muscles !, Meditation and Lovemaking. Part 1, Meditation and Lovemaking. Part 2 Q: Do most people who are into tantric lovemaking always want to have many different lovers? A: It is very hard to change the western conceptions regarding monogamy. Only by practicing of sexual continence a man can make love many hours continuously without losing the sexual energy through ejaculation. So, such a man can make love with many women. A man who controls the sexual energy (that means he doesn't ejaculate) can make love with many women. He is able to love and satisfy their lovers. All the Tantric and Taoist masters had many lovers. Q: With his hands he gives me what I call the "shivers" and after that I go from feeling pleasure to feeling discomfort. I just want him to stop. This is very frustrating for him. I'm satisfied but he says I should feel more. It's like I shut down after I feel the shivers. Is this frigidity? A: No, you are not frigid. It seems that you lose sexual energy by having orgasm with sexual energy discharge. This is why you don't want to continue the intercourse and you have these feelings of discomfort. The men feel the same after ejaculation. They don't want to make love any more. So, all that you have to do is to remain in the phase of orgasm that precedes the contractions (shivers). Ask your lover to stop his movements when you feel that you get close to the climax. In this way you will be aroused all the time during intercourse. Q: Sometimes, while a man is inside of a woman, he gets a little bit softer but can still thrust. Does it unpleasant for a woman? Do women want their lover to be very hard all the time during intercourse? What would you do if this happens? A: No, it is not necessary to be hard all the time in order to give pleasure to a woman. Tantric masters used often to make love without having erection, because this help in controlling the sexual energy. Of course that in the case of flaccid penetration the penis' size is more important than in the case of tough penetration. You could start lovemaking with flaccid penetration by inserting your penis in your lover's vagina using one hand. You will see that during intercourse you will get the erection. Read the article about flabby penetration: The Flabby Penetration Q: I know foreplay is important. So how long should an ideal foreplay be in order to get women highly satisfied? A: An ideal foreplay should last almost half an hour. But the period of prelude depends on how sensual the woman is. Q: I feel a bit sheepish asking you this, but can you tell me why I have an erection every time I wake up in the morning? One of the stories I'd heard says that as I sleep, my bladder fills, and pushes on my prostate, inducing the erection. The thing is, as soon as I GET up, within about 20 seconds, it's down. If the bladder/prostate case were true, wouldn't the bladder still be pushing on the prostate, thus maintaining the erection? A: It is a very good question. Your observation is right. It is true that during the night the bladder fills but the erection is not induced because the bladder pushes on the prostate. This phenomenon can be explained only in terms of energies: the bladder full with urine means energy accumulated in the genital area (at the level of SWADHISTANA CHAKRA). When you wake up for a few seconds the body is very relaxed and the accumulated energy manifests through erection. After a few seconds the mind takes the control over the body and then the man lose the erection. Q: When my girlfriend and I have sex she gets raw and irritated after she cum. A: This happens because she loses the entire sexual energy when she has explosive orgasm. And after that she doesn't feel any pleasure and this produces irritation. You don't have the same feelings because you don't lose all your sexual energy at first ejaculation. I recommend both of you to learn sexual continence. In this way both of you will be able to make love for many hours continuously. Q: Should men shave their penis's and around it? A: Only if they want to feel better the genital area of the woman. Q: I've never kissed women vulva, it feels me disgusting but I want to, how I can overcome these feelings. A: You can overcome this feeling by worshiping women. And think about this: The vagina is the gate through which every human being comes to life. How could it be disgusting? You should read the article: Q: The masturbation can add size to the penis? A: The masturbation doesn't increase the penis' dimensions. Q: What is the medium size of the penis? A: You can read about the classification of the penises from the article Q: I have heard that not all women have G-spot is it true? A: Every woman has a G-spot. But not all women are "awaked" this spot. Q: Is having sex with a female (with menstruation) safe?? A: Not only that lovemaking when a woman has menstruation is safe but it is recommended by Tantric masters because the woman has a huge energy during menstruation and the man can benefit from it. Q: It is said that you can last longer during sex by learning fragmented urination, please explain this to me and how urinating has got anything to do with sex. A: Fragmented urination helps men to become aware of the fact that they can control the ejaculation; first step is to exercise to control the urination process. This control will help man to know when it is necessary and how to contract or to relax the genital muscles in order to avoid ejaculation and thus to prolong the intercourse. Read our articles regarding fragmented urination: Q: Ginseng and Yohimbe are good for women, too? A: The women can use the same herbal aphrodisiacs as those used by men for increasing the sexual appetite, such as ginseng (see the article Raise your virility with GINSENG), yohimbe YOHIMBE - A herbal aphrodisiac that produces erection) and so on. Other powerful aphrodisiacs that you could use are sweet basil and cinnamon. I recommend you a recipe that awake the sexual desire: in a cup of liquid chocolate put the following ingredients: 1 teaspoon of ginseng powder, 1 teaspoon of cinnamon and 1 teaspoon of sweet basil. Eat this cream with 2 hours before lovemaking. Q: What should I do to change the smell and flavour of my lover's sexual fluids? A: There are two ways to change the taste and the flavour of the sexual fluids both for man and woman: an inner way and an outer way. The inner way consists of purification of body through different methods such as vegetarian nutrition. This kind of nutrition will improve the flavour of all secretions of the body. The outer way consists of using some natural accessories with good flavour, such as honey blended with some aphrodisiacs. You could use honey, eventually blended with a little sweet basil powder, to insert in the vagina of your lover. Instead of sweet basil you could add any other herbs with good flavour. In this way the flavour of her sexual juices will be improved. Another good way is to use some natural juices such as orange juice in order to perfume the vulva before lovemaking. Also she could make vaginal washing with perfumed water (ex. roses water) before lovemaking. Q: Tell me something about mystical lovemaking. A: 1. Mystical sex is a spiritual path for discovering the essence of human being. It originates from ancient times and it was practiced under the name of Tao in ancient China and under the name of Tantra in India. (See the articles from Tantra section). Tantra starts from the idea that our sexuality, our amatory impulses actually represent a debased metaphysical urge, otherwise said that our highest spiritual aspirations are imprisoned in the matter in the shape of the sexuality. 2. The base condition of having spiritual experiences during lovemaking is to practice sexual continence. In fact, the sexual continence represents the influence of consciousness over the senses, a victory of the mind over the instincts. 3. In ancient China Many those people (especially the emperor and his concubines) who practised mystical lovemaking experienced very good health, remaining young and bountiful with sexual organs in old age as tight and resilient as those of young people. Originally, this kind of lovemaking was implemented for improving health, both physically and spiritually. Q: My wife is pregnant. What kind of positions do you recommend us? A: With the woman's breasts swollen it makes sense to adopt positions that do not put pressure on them. As the woman's tummy becomes really swollen, normal missionary positions become difficult, uncomfortable, or even impossible. Woman-on-top positions are exceptionally satisfactory at the stage of the last three months because her body remains free and the man can caress her tummy and breasts. Other proper positions are: 1. All fours: Doggy positions are comfortable and highly arousing for many. The vagina opens well, allowing room for the penis even in a woman in the late stages of pregnancy. 2. Rear-entry: These positions generally work well. A restful one is the spoons' in which the man cuddles into the woman's back as she lies facing away from him. She draws up her lower leg a little and opens her legs and places her upper leg on or over his as he penetrates her from behind. 3. Sitting on the penis: This is exceptionally good for the woman who tends to feel giddy or has heartburn when lying flat for lovemaking. This can be modified to include squatting on the penis, as her lover lies flat on the bed or floor. 4. "No touch" technique: In this the woman lies flat on the bed, or some other surface of the right height, and the man kneels in front and inserts his penis as she draws her legs back to wherever is comfortable. This is good towards the end of a pregnancy as it is not tiring and penetration is not exceptionally deep. Don't go for deep penetration positions in the last two weeks. Q: I started to practice sexual continence. I don't have any problem in controlling the sexual energy when I make love but I have nocturnal pollutions. What can I do to avoid them? A: The sexual continence has to be accompanied by techniques for sublimation the sexual energy. Otherwise, the sexual energy will be excessively accumulated at the genital zone and this will produce irritability, agitation, nervousness and nocturnal emission. I will give you a good method to prevent nocturnal emission: before you go to sleep swaddle strongly your flaccid penis with a piece of cloth. The wrapping of the penis has to be done strongly from the base of it to the glans. In this way you will program to be awaked at the beginning of erection and also the ejaculation will be avoided. 
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